Wedding Signature Cocktails: 5 His & Hers Drinks (With Zero-Proof Versions for Every Guest)
Five wedding signature cocktails that batch easily and photograph beautifully: an elderflower gin spritz, bourbon peach smash, lavender collins, blood orange margarita, and raspberry royale, each with a zero-proof twin.
A wedding signature cocktail does three jobs. It tells your story, it keeps the bar line moving, and it looks lovely in photos. These five were chosen because they batch easily, pour fast, and photograph beautifully, and each has a zero-proof twin with the same glass and garnish, so non-drinking guests (and the pregnant bridesmaid) can raise the same drink at the toast. Tap 🌿 Mocktails at the top to see every twin.
How to choose: pick one lighter, bubbly drink and one richer, spirit-forward drink. That’s where the “his and hers” tradition comes from, but choose whatever suits the two of you.
Elderflower Gin Spritz
Gin, elderflower liqueurElderflower liqueurFloral, lychee-like liqueur made from elderflowers (St-Germain is the best known)., and lemon, topped with prosecco and soda. It’s floral, light, and elegant, and it’s built right in the glass, so the bartender can pour dozens an hour.
Spritzes are fast to pour, so the bar line moves quickly.
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Elderflower Gin Spritz
Elderflower Cucumber Spritz
Gin, elderflower, lemon, and bubbles with a cucumber ribbon.
Glass
Wine glass
Method
Built in glass
Time
3 min
Strength
Medium· ≈ 13% ABV
Glass
Wine glass
Method
Built in glass
Time
3 min
Strength
Zero-proof· under 0.5%
Servings
Units
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Cucumber ribbon, mint sprig
Method
1Line a wine glass with a cucumber ribbon and fill with ice.
2Add the gin, elderflower liqueur, and lemon, then top with prosecco and soda.
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Cucumber ribbon, mint sprig
Method
1Line a wine glass with a cucumber ribbon and fill with ice.
2Add the gin, elderflower liqueur, and lemon, then top with prosecco and soda.
How the swap works: Elderflower cordial matches the liqueur's floral flavor; muddled cucumber gives the fresh, green note gin would.
Enjoy responsibly, of legal drinking age only ·Zero-proof twin ·· 1 oz = 30 ml
Bourbon Peach Smash
Bourbon, peach, lemon, and mint over crushed ice: the classic richer pick. Its zero-proof twin is basically a proper Southern peach iced tea, which non-drinkers love.
Ripe summer peaches make it; peach nectar keeps it consistent.
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Bourbon Peach Smash
Peach Mint Tea Smash
Bourbon, peach, lemon, and mint over crushed ice.
Glass
Rocks glass
Method
Shaken
Time
4 min
Strength
Medium· ≈ 18% ABV
Glass
Rocks glass
Method
Shaken
Time
4 min
Strength
Zero-proof· 0.0%
Servings
Units
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Peach slice, mint sprig
Batching it? Stir in of cold water for the dilution the ice would add, chill at least 2 hours, then pour over fresh ice. Skip the water if you’ll still shake or stir each drink with ice.
Method
1Gently muddle the mint in a shaker, add everything else, and shake with ice.
2Strain over crushed ice and garnish with a peach slice and mint.
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Peach slice, mint sprig
Batching it? Stir in of cold water for the dilution the ice would add, chill at least 2 hours, then pour over fresh ice. Skip the water if you’ll still shake or stir each drink with ice.
Method
1Gently muddle the mint in a shaker, add everything else, and shake with ice.
2Strain over crushed ice and garnish with a peach slice and mint.
How the swap works: Peach iced tea is a Southern classic for a reason. The tea gives bourbon's tannin, and extra peach replaces the syrup.
Enjoy responsibly, of legal drinking age only ·Zero-proof twin ·· 1 oz = 30 ml
Lavender Lemonade Collins
Vodka, lemon, a touch of lavender syrupLavender syrupSimple syrup steeped with culinary lavender; use a light hand., and soda. It’s soft purple, floral, and refreshing, and perfect for a rustic or garden wedding.
Batch it in a dispenser for a self-serve welcome drink.
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Lavender Lemonade Collins
Sparkling Lavender Lemonade
Vodka, lemon, lavender syrup, and soda.
Glass
Collins
Method
Built in glass
Time
3 min
Strength
Light· ≈ 9% ABV
Glass
Collins
Method
Built in glass
Time
3 min
Strength
Zero-proof· 0.0%
Servings
Units
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Lemon wheel, lavender sprig
Method
1Fill a collins glass with ice, add the vodka, lemon, and syrups, and stir.
2Top with soda and garnish.
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Lemon wheel, lavender sprig
Method
1Fill a collins glass with ice, add the vodka, lemon, and syrups, and stir.
2Top with soda and garnish.
How the swap works: Lemonade replaces the lemon-and-syrup base, and a little extra lemon keeps it bright.
Enjoy responsibly, of legal drinking age only ·Zero-proof twin ·· 1 oz = 30 ml
Blood Orange Margarita
For fall and winter weddings, when blood oranges are in season: tequila, blood orange, lime, and orange liqueur with a half-salt, half-sugar rim. The deep coral color is stunning in photos.
Batching it? Stir in of cold water for the dilution the ice would add, chill at least 2 hours, then pour over fresh ice. Skip the water if you’ll still shake or stir each drink with ice.
Method
1Rim a rocks glass half with salt and half with sugar, and fill with ice.
2Shake everything hard with ice and strain into the glass.
Batching it? Stir in of cold water for the dilution the ice would add, chill at least 2 hours, then pour over fresh ice. Skip the water if you’ll still shake or stir each drink with ice.
Method
1Rim a rocks glass half with salt and half with sugar, and fill with ice.
2Shake everything hard with ice and strain into the glass.
How the swap works: Black tea and a pinch of salt give the margarita structure, while extra blood orange replaces the orange liqueur.
Enjoy responsibly, of legal drinking age only ·Zero-proof twin ·· 1 oz = 30 ml
Raspberry Royale
Blush pink and made for the toast. A few muddled raspberries, a touch of lemon and orange liqueur, topped with champagne. The zero-proof twin uses sparkling grape juice and soda, fully 0.0%, so everyone can take part.
A coupe tower for the toast, with a zero-proof tray alongside.
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Raspberry Royale
Raspberry Sparkler
Muddled raspberries and a touch of lemon under champagne.
Glass
Coupe
Method
Built in glass
Time
3 min
Strength
Medium· ≈ 11% ABV
Glass
Coupe
Method
Built in glass
Time
3 min
Strength
Zero-proof· 0.0%
Servings
Units
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Two raspberries
Method
1Muddle the raspberries with the lemon, syrup, and orange liqueur, then fine-strain into a chilled coupe.
2Slowly top with champagne and drop in two raspberries.
Ingredients (1 drink)
Garnish: Two raspberries
Method
1Muddle the raspberries with the lemon, syrup, and orange liqueur, then fine-strain into a chilled coupe.
2Slowly top with champagne and drop in two raspberries.
How the swap works: Half sparkling grape juice, half soda mimics dry champagne; fully 0.0%, so it's safe for everyone at the toast.
Enjoy responsibly, of legal drinking age only ·Zero-proof twin ·· 1 oz = 30 ml
Make Them Yours
Name the drinks after yourselves, your pets, or where you met, and keep the menu description plain (“gin · elderflower · bubbles”) so guests know what they’re getting.
How many signature cocktails should a wedding have?
One or two (often a 'his' and 'hers', or one for each partner) plus beer, wine, and a zero-proof version of each. Two signatures keep the bar fast and the menu simple.
How much alcohol do I need for a wedding signature drink?
Plan on roughly half your guests choosing the signature cocktail for the first two hours, at about two drinks each. A 750 ml bottle of spirit makes about 16 drinks at 1½ oz, or 12 at 2 oz.
Offer every signature drink as a mocktail too, with the same glass and garnish, so non-drinking guests aren't singled out. The zero-proof twins on each card here are designed for exactly that.
What's the best signature cocktail for a large wedding?
Something built, not shaken: a spritz, a collins, or a batched punch. The Elderflower Gin Spritz and Lavender Lemonade Collins both pour in seconds.
How do I name our signature cocktails?
Personal names work best: your names, your pets, where you met, or a shared joke. Keep the menu description clear (for example, 'gin, elderflower, bubbles') so guests know what they're ordering.